{"id":6204,"date":"2021-03-17T14:20:57","date_gmt":"2021-03-17T18:20:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/?p=6204"},"modified":"2021-03-19T08:57:17","modified_gmt":"2021-03-19T12:57:17","slug":"small-bites-planned-decision-making-reduces-frustration-and-increases-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/2021\/03\/17\/small-bites-planned-decision-making-reduces-frustration-and-increases-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Small Bites &#8211; Planned Decision Making Reduces Frustration (and Increases Happiness!)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div>\n<p>Small Bites &#8211; Planned Decision Making Reduces Frustration (and Increases Happiness!)<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em><span style=\"color: #003366\">Authored by Coach Abby Sadauckas<\/span><br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><em>Small Bites are short, informational articles with practical ideas about stress reduction, improved communication, and farm and family well-being. They are written by coaches from UMaine Extension\u2019s<a href=\"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/beginning-farmer-resource-network\/farm-coaching-supporting-relationships-for-farm-success\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/beginning-farmer-resource-network\/farm-coaching-supporting-relationships-for-farm-success\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1616090128473000&amp;usg=AFQjCNE_3qaEy-8naPhkkFOpmU3guI6GYw\"> Farm Coaching<\/a> team. Farm Coaches are available at no cost to work remotely with farmers and farm teams.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003366\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-6205 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-300x200.png\" alt=\"lunch\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-105x70.png 105w, https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-317x212.png 317w, https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-423x282.png 423w, https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM-634x423.png 634w, https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/agrability\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2021\/03\/Screen-Shot-2021-03-17-at-2.18.08-PM.png 650w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 85vw, (max-width: 768px) 67vw, (max-width: 1024px) 62vw,300px\" \/><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003366\">Planned Decision Making<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">In my last <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8QzEP-1C9\">Small Bite (about avoiding distractions)<\/a>, I referenced this<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/944128\/worker-interrupted-cost-task-switching?mc_cid=8d5418e7d0&amp;mc_eid=58fd97b123\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/944128\/worker-interrupted-cost-task-switching?mc_cid%3D8d5418e7d0%26mc_eid%3D58fd97b123&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1616090128473000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGvlz9tDPzrtcCEHmFp9I8EvF0q6Q\"> article in Fast Company<\/a> about the impact of getting distracted. The article introduced me to the idea of self-distracting and it also highlighted a behavior I simply thought of as a pet peeve. I, like many of you, make many decisions with my partner. This means we need to have fairly frequent conversations to check-in, follow-up, and ensure we actually made a decision.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">One of my least favorite things is when I\u2019m in the middle of something and it seems to be an opportune time to have such a conversation. Reading this article made me realize, that\u2019s because I know how difficult it will be to get back on task!<\/p>\n<p>With this knowledge, I\u2019m better able to plan for decision-making on a weekly basis and identify good times (for us it\u2019s lunch) when we can ask the following; What decisions are hanging out? Which do I need to be involved in (or not)? How involved does my partner want to be in a particular decision, or can I just move ahead with their blessing? Asking these questions has streamlined our farm meetings, clarified our roles, and made me much happier!<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Need help in figuring out a weekly schedule so you can find ease in decision making? The <a href=\"https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/beginning-farmer-resource-network\/farm-coaching-supporting-relationships-for-farm-success\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/extension.umaine.edu\/beginning-farmer-resource-network\/farm-coaching-supporting-relationships-for-farm-success\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1616090128473000&amp;usg=AFQjCNE_3qaEy-8naPhkkFOpmU3guI6GYw\">\u00a0Farm Coaching<\/a> team can help!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Small Bites &#8211; Planned Decision Making Reduces Frustration (and Increases Happiness!) 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