Bulletin #4807, Farm Coaching to Support Farm-Family Communication: Session 1
S1: Planting Seeds
Goal of S1: Understand the opportunities and challenges and begin to organize thinking.
Opening: Welcome everyone and review goals of S1, expanding on each concept:
- Create trust and safety
- Encourage voice and choice
- Create a responsive process and aim for flexibility. Coaches will:
- Flex with childrens’ needs (e.g. crying toddler)
- Listen to farmer feedback about forms, tools, homework
- Ask about farmers’ willingness/access to videoconferencing technology
- Ask if there are any questions about the coaching sessions
- Hand out a resource binder to each farm team
⇒ Activity: SWOC (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Challenges)
- Review and record individuals’ S & W on one large SWOC doc (flipchart)
- Each person holds their own S & W list
- Each person narrates what they want to share and coaches record (in different colors for each farmer) on one large, combined SWOC document
- Coaches notice and name resonance and dissonance
- Coaches acknowledge when farmers recognize strengths in self or others
- Review and record individuals’ O & C on the same large SWOC doc (flipchart)
- Each person holds their own O & C list
- Each person narrates what they want to share and coaches record (in different colors for each farmer) on one large, combined SWOC document
- Coaches notice and name resonance and dissonance
- Coaches acknowledge when farmers recognize opportunities in self or others
- Once combined SWOC is complete, farmers circle one S or W that has particular heat or importance to them.
- Discuss as a group
- Farmers circle one O or C that has particular heat, weight or importance to them
- Discuss as a group
⇒ Activity: Introduce Eisenhower Box
- Introduce, use and model future use of the Eisenhower Box. Use the O & Cs identified in previous activity to populate as an example.
⇒ Activity: Introduce Action Plan
- Choose an action item/urgent need from the Eisenhower Box and chart it all together in the Action Plan.
Homework:
- See University of Maine Cooperative Extension Bulletin #4808, Appreciation Feedback
- Use the Eisenhower Box for home, personal and/or farm priorities.
- Personality/Style Inventory
- DISC (Dominance-Influence-Steadiness-Conscientiousness) or Leadership Compass activity.
- Another inventory can be selected based on the coach’s experience and familiarity with the tool.
- Plan a farm meeting with an agenda.
- Mission/Vision alignment (Do you have one? Does it need to be revised? Do you need to write one?)
- Use the Action Plan to chart a few farm or home priority activities.
Closing: Self-evaluation
- Coaches model answering the question “How did I do?” Expressing appreciations and correcting any gaffs, oversights, unintentional harms, etc. that may have occurred. Farmers are invited to do the same.
- Expressing appreciation bulletin: Bulletin #4801, Why “Thank You” Matters: Expressing Appreciation Toward Partners and Family Members Farming Together
Closing: Plan next meeting time and place
Send out S1 Notes 5-7 days after S1 meeting
Send out S2 Agenda 5-7 days before S2 meeting